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If you feel like you need some extra support, open up to someone about how you’re feeling — bonus points if it’s a therapist or clinician! — so they can offer you some support and tips on how to improve your own mental well-being. They can’t help but perceive them as near-perfect, and almost everything they do is automatically okay with INFJs on the outside, even if it makes them unhappy, uncomfortable, or annoyed on the inside. They frequently dismiss their feelings. Those with silent BPD have internalized emotional episodes, as opposed to the conventional presentation of BPD, which includes angry outbursts and evident and outer self-destructiveness (they turn their anger inward).

Yes, INFJs can be psychopaths, and Hitler was an INFJ psychopath. Psychopaths, on average, show their tendencies at a young age; they may not be visible to everyone because they are covert, but close family members will detect red flags. This happens particularly with INTPs, as INFJ’s are able to easily build rapport with those types and they often seem to like them. When INFJs connect with others in a meaningful sense like shared interests, activities, etc., they feel happy. People with BPD may have a strong fear of abandonment or instability, find it difficult to tolerate being alone. Even if you wish to have meaningful and lasting relationships, improper anger, impulsiveness, and frequent mood swings may push others away. Maybe I sound like a pathetic baby?Obviously I appreciate that really, this isn't that big of an issue. But it really makes me want to cry.Someone with BPD would do anything to stop that from happening, which is why they may come across as being “clingy” or “needy.” Though it can be difficult to empathize with, remember that it stems from a place of fear, which can be incredibly hard to live with. 2. ‘It feels like going through life with third-degree emotional burns; everything is hot and painful to touch.’ Sometimes people with BPD will threaten suicide or self-harm without intending to actually hurt themselves. In this case, it’s a way to get attention or other desired outcomes, such as manipulating their partners into staying in the relationship with them or forcing their families into giving them money. 7. Unstable mood It doesn’t take much to trigger fear of abandonment. It could be something as simple as family members having to leave for work or another mundane reason. However, in the sufferer’s mind, they are betrayed by the people they trusted the most. The feelings of pain, isolation, terror, panic, and anxiety are very real to them. 2. Idealization and devaluation

And the copying thing. It's usually those same jealous people that copy everything I do!! Lately I'm going through a very creative phase. So the jealousy and the copying is happening literally daily. INFJ’s are the most uncommon of all personality kinds. They leave their imprint on the world. They have a strong sense of idealism and ethics, but they aren’t idle dreamers; they work hard to achieve their objectives and leave a lasting impression. I have been making video art, so now 2 of my 'friends' have also decided to start making video art, trying to replicate my exact style, content, everything. Feeling insecure about who you are, with your sense of self changing significantly depending on who you're with That happened to me really recently at work. I formed a good relationship with someone, and a guy actually told me "you're so close to that woman, I'm kind of jealous to be honest." I built a rapport with her because I'm a young guy, and I have sort of a childish innocence about me...I can balance fun with responsibility really well. Anyway this guy has started copying the way I act around her. And she's receptive to it. And I'm pissed because those qualities made me special. It was something I had to offer that no one else does. It was a part of my identity that I actually valued and cared about which is so rare for me. and then someone decides he wants to start acting like me, it seems so inauthentic and it just makes me feel like I have nothing to give now.

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any substance or combination of substances that may be used by or administered to human beings with a view to restoring, correcting or modifying a physiological function by exerting a pharmacological, immunological or metabolic action, or making a medical diagnosis Honestly, it's been such a problem through my life it's made me belittle myself and devalue myself in front of others so they won't feel threatened or jealous of me.